Why the West is fixated on Muslim women’s wardrobes

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Muslim women living in the West are attacked in the streets, supermarkets, buses, and football games, just for wearing the hijab. In France, Muslim students are denied education for wearing hijabs, last week a 15-year-old Muslim student was banned from school for wearing a long black skirt, “seen as openly religious for the secular France”, reported UK newspaper The Guardian. A Muslim woman was shown in a picture wearing a flag wrapped over her head, it was deemed as blasphemy.

The reactions on Social media were fraught with anger and violence. The Twitter Account @BannedIslam posted the picture of the young Muslim woman with this question: What would you do if you saw this? The reactions show how fanatical Americans think of Muslim women’s dress and sexuality.

One comment made by ‘Onenine’ suggested to people that they ‘burn the bitch’, and another person offered a different strategy by strangling the girl with the scarf. Hijab and Burqa aren’t rejected in the West for their religious inclinations, but of their anti-commercialism inclinations: they aren’t falling victim to the West’s commercial icons such as Liz Claiborne, Calvin Klein, and Victoria’s Secret.

A Western woman spends 287 days refilling her wardrobe, recounted The Telegraph: by choosing outfits for work, nights out, dinner parties, holidays, for the gym, and other activities. The Economist reported that an American woman spends an average of $3,400 to fill her wardrobe each year. The colonial West has been interested in the Muslim woman’s dress for a long a time. Orientalist artists and painters had depicted Muslim women as submissive sexual objects, devoid of any activities, simply sitting waiting for their men.

How do people in Muslim countries prefer women to dress in public? This question was raised by a recent, much-discussed survey from the University of Michigan’s Institute for Social Research, as part of a comprehensive study on post-Arab Spring attitudes towards America and democratic values. The survey was conducted in seven countries: Tunisia, Egypt, Iraq, Lebanon, Pakistan, Saudi Arabia, and Turkey, which aren’t all Arab or Muslim. Lebanon is not a solely Muslim country, and Turkey and Pakistan are not Arab countries.

The results, as outlined on the Pew Research Center’s FactTank, found that most people in the countries studied prefer that a woman completely covers her hair, but not necessarily her face. Only in Turkey and Lebanon, more than one in four thought it is appropriate for a woman not to cover her head at all in public. The study’s underlying assumption was that practices concerning women’s faces and hair coverings were a measure of women’s liberation and modernity itself. The question of modesty in general wasn’t even considered. Not since Samson, has there been such interest in Middle Eastern hair.

The study randomly selected about 3,000 people from each country, regardless of its size. Each respondent was given a card depicting six styles of women’s headdresses, and asked to choose the woman most appropriately outfitted for a public place. As the study stated, no labels were included on the card. The depicted styles ranged from a fully-hooded burqa (woman No. 1) to the less conservative hijab (women No. 4 and No. 5). There was also the option of a woman wearing no head covering of any type. I won’t get into the main findings, which were confusing, inconsistent, and mostly about preferences – not about how many women actually wear these different styles.

The two questions in the study that concern us are: What style of dress is appropriate for women in public? The concept of “appropriate” is loaded, if we don’t measure it against any norm – social, religious or personal. The West just can’t get its head around the fact that a Muslim woman’s choice of attire can just be a personal one, and not a cultural or religious one. The second key question was: Should women be able to choose their own clothing? I’m a little wary of this type of dichotomy in research questions; where you are given only two options – yes or no – especially when the question concerns a complicated social value, such as Muslim women’s freedom to choose their own dress. The study surveyed both male and female, but didn’t break the answers down by gender.

In a nutshell, the study found that only 14% in Egypt think women should choose their own dress, as opposed to 47% in Saudi Arabia. That means that 86% of respondents in Egypt, where women have relatively more latitude in their fashion selections, want someone else to influence their choices. In Saudi Arabia, where women are forced to consult with only one fashion designer, the Islamic dress code, 47% think they could make a better choice for themselves.

This kind of study doesn’t really measure Muslim’s attitudes towards women’s clothing, so much as it reflects the West’s attitude toward Muslim women and Muslim people. Just imagine, for the sake of argument, someone asking the same two questions in America, where the fashion industry spends as much money trying to control women’s bodies as the military spent invading Iraq. It tells American women how to dress – not necessarily how much hair they should cover in public, but how much skin they should reveal.

How would Americans answer this question: “What style of dress is appropriate for women in public?” Never mind how men would answer. In winter, frigid weather, which in some states reaches 40° below, I’d bet lots of women wouldn’t mind the fully-hooded burqa style that much.

Ahmed Tharwat is a public speaker and hosts the Arab-American show “Belahdan”.

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The Hijab… ! My Family and Me

 

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Hijab, the traditional Islamic head cover, has triggered lots of discussion and debate in the west for years, The west has been paying so much attention to Muslim women’s dress than Muslim women’s mind. Muslim women’s hijab comes in so many different sizes, colors and styles, depending on the country, person and culture, from partially covering the head, to the Full Monty of the Burka/Niqab which covers the full head and face except eyes.

 

Hijab 8 Why the west is paying that much attention to Muslim women Islamic tradition cloth, only God and Victoria’s Secret know. The perception of hijab in the west ranges from a symbol of oppression of Muslim women by men (not an Islamic thing) to rejection of assimilation to mainstream consumer culture, labeled by some as head towel, cancer patient, to a terrorist cloth. The word hijab literally means screen or divider, but is most often used to refer to the covering of Muslim women, particularly the scarf she wears to cover If you ask Muslim women themselves, about their reasons of wearing hijab, you get different ideas and perspectives, that truly reflect diversity in cultures and personalities, reasons like ‘out of respect,’ ‘religious requirement,’ ‘uniformity,’ ‘beauty,’ ‘keeping men’s advancements at bay,’ ‘less diversion (from a certain norm?),’ and ‘for modesty’ are probably the most frequently mentioned. God asks us, men and women, to be modest in our demeanors and appearances. “I myself don’t like to be stuck in something (hijab) that blocks the air from my ears just because i have to!” Esraa Farouk, a 19 year old, college student at Cairo University (who herself wears hijab) told me in a facebook conversation!.

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Some Muslim women will wear hijab only to mosques, or funerals, and others wear hijab all the time even at bars while drinking alcohol. A friend told me once that his Muslim girlfriend won’t take her hijab off even while they were making love. Some Muslim women wear hijab on top of modern revealing clothes, miniskirts, short sleeves. I noticed on my visit
to Cairo university in Egypt that students with hijab wear more tight skirts or pants than those who don’t.

The American fashion industry is controlled mostly by men spend millions of dollars every year to tell American women what to wear or not to wear, but there is not much serious debate about western women revealing their bodies as much as Muslim women covering her bodies. Nobody would question the commercial oppression and beauty mystique that Corporate America so imposes on western women that they struggle everyday to get the right body size and the right balance. How do Muslim women really look at hijab, and what does hijab mean to them? What they tell you is something you would not hear or see on CNN and Fox.

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I first paid attention to how different Muslim women look at hijab when I visited my family in Egypt, which is in on the conservative side (salafi you could say). Friends and relatives usually come to our house to say hi. At the room you can see my brothers wearing their long robes, long beards, and see their wives and daughters all wearing hijabs no exception. The hijabs reflect their personalities, age and lifestyle. Each niece has as many hijabs as she has moods: happy, colorful, black, red, or yellow. Based on the situation and whom they are going to meet, hijab reflects that: wedding, dates, coffee shops, work, funerals. Each occasion requires a different fashion decision. Wearing hijab at home has its rules and etiquettes.

Hijab dressThe girls take their hijab off once they get home to relax, like American men taking off their hats in the 1950s, then you hang your hijab once you get into the house.

. Having Hijab on or off inside the house, will depend very much on who is in the room and that person’s relationship to the family. As a general rule, if you ‘can marry’ the person in the room you wear hijab. There is no jihab between brother and sister, for example, because a marital affinity between the two is not possible.If it was a relative you can’t marry, you don’t have to cover, but you still can keep it on if you choose to. If I’m the only person in the room, my nieces take their hijab off, then depending on who is coming to visit at the door, the hijab will be back on, for some nieces and off for others. If the visitor is a male to begin with and a brother of some of then and not others, his sisters can keep their hijab off, while other nieces have to keep theirs on.

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In Texas, where marrying cousins is acceptable, the cousin is a stranger and the hijab is on.. Like a designated driver for a night out, my family has a designated snitch, or an informant, usually a male person who opens the door based on the guest’s gender and relationship to the family, he then gives a visual signal, raise his hand up or down, meaning off or on, directed at a particular niece to become ‘hijab ready.’ In some cases, it would happen so fast, when people are coming and going, then it gets confusing, as to who should have hijab on or off, and if you can’t find your own hijab, quickly grabs a hijab off the head of one who does
not need it at the moment. Give me your hijab; it is your brother, then everyone starts giggling and joking, the visitor enters the room, full of women who are hijab ready…. !!

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Egypt First Lady… one of many firsts!

On June 24, Mohammed Morsi of the Muslim Brotherhood Freedom and Justice Party was named the winner of the Egyptian presidential election. He is the first civilian elected president in Egypt’s long history.

Morsi also is the first Islamist to get to the presidential palace, and the first Egyptian president with the name Mohammed as an actual first name (Hosni Mubarak and Anwar Sadat injected the name for Islamic flavor). He is the first Egyptian president to have earned an actual doctoral degree, and the first to win election with less than 90 percent of the vote (he got 51.7 percent).

He is the first Egyptian president educated at a U.S. university. And in the arena of religion symbolism, Morsi brought the beard for the first time into the presidential palace.

But the one “first” that will get the West’s and especially Americans’ attention, is that Morsi’s wife, as Egypt’s first lady, will wear traditional Islamic dress, abaya — full-coverage hijab.

Since she will be with us in that role for at least the next four years, let me introduce you to Najla Mahmoud. She was born in Cairo in 1962. She is Morsi’s first cousin (don’t panic — they do it in Texas); they were married in 1979. The couple has four sons and a daughter.

Egypt’s new first lady lived in the United States with her husband while he studied at the University of Southern California. She has been an active member of the Brotherhood for many years, alongside running multiple charity projects, particularly in education, and working as a translator. She is a very different first lady, even by Egyptian standards. She got a fair amount of ridiculous coverage from Egyptian liberal media and so called secular Egyptians. Some even questioned whether she is fit to represent Egypt.

Her image has become the subject of a rancorous debate on websites and in newspapers. A column in the newspaper El Fagr asked sarcastically: How could she receive world leaders and still adhere to her traditional Islamic standards of modesty? “Don’t look at her. Don’t shake hands with her,” the paper suggested, calling it a “comic scenario.”

Traditionally, the role of the Egyptian first lady is to be invisible. Mubarak’s wife lived in the shadow of her projected strong leader, running charity organizations and meeting dignitaries — until the ex-dictator lost interest and the first lady took over running the country’s domestic affairs.

According to a recent interview in one of the Egyptian papers, the new first lady does not even like the title, saying, “Islam taught us that the next president is the first servant of Egypt; this means that his wife is also the servant of Egypt. Any title that has been forced upon us must be gone with, it should disappear from my political and social dictionary.”

She sees herself first in women’s traditional role and foremost as a mother. In an interview with the Egyptian press, she admitted that she preferred to be called “Em Ahmed” (mother of Ahmed) above any other title. The former first lady never would have accepted being called “Em Gamal,” while at the same time was she grooming her own son Gamal to take over Egypt after her ailing husband showed deep signs of dictatorial boredom.

Mahmoud can hold her own and handles media intrusion with such ease , when a photography asked if he can take a photo of her; “on condition that you make me look good and slimmer” she jokily said. In an interview with «Voice of America» considering Copts in Egypt, she explained  «We live in one nation, because Islam does not differentiate between a Muslim and a Christian, on the contrary, because the Islamic religion us to the equal rights of the Christian with a Muslim in the same country », I have a  good relations with Christian women in their surroundings. She added.

And on  her husband the person « he is balanced and very serious», adding that he has the mentality of a political, and continued: «After the marriage has lasted for more than 30 years, I can not say that someone Comedy, may have a sense of humor, but seriously most of the time and trying to be amusing from time to time ». “ he helped in the house choir and Cooks for me’” … our fights usually last no more than a few minutes” she added.

Former first ladies spent a great deal of money on their appearance and on making Western fashion statements. The new first lady will have none of it; she will have only one fashion statement to make, the hijab. The full-length Islamic dress will be the one representation of postrevolution Egypt. This won’t be too hard for most Egyptian women to follow (Muslim ones as well as Christians); most of them already wear some kind of head cover. Dalia Saber, 36, an engineering lecturer, said, “She looks like my mother; she looks like my husband’s mother; she probably looks like your mother and everybody else’s.”

The West has a fixation on Muslim dress. Its view of hijab — mostly a colonial one — is as a symbol of the oppression of women. As if the billions of dollars spent by the fashion industry to tell Western women what to wear is not oppressive. The cause of liberating Muslim women has been used by the West to invade Muslim countries and take down their so-called oppressive leaders. For most Western feminists, and liberal men, the freedom of women turned into freedom to get women.

This racist attitude toward Muslim women’s traditional dress, still prevalent in parts of the West, is often hidden behind the veil of secularism.

“I wear hijab to be part of a faith, not a part of fashion” explained a young French Muslim woman, responding to the question of why she covered her beautiful hair.

So just as America’s first black first lady brought gardening and fitness to the White House, having a hijabi first lady in Egypt may bring a new attitude toward Muslim women, and a new understanding of Muslim dress.

Ahmed Tharwat is a public speaker and hosts the Arab-American show “Belahdan” at 10:30 p.m. Saturdays on Twin Cities Public Television. He blogs at www.ahmediatv.com.

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